Sunday, December 13, 2009

The Most Wonderful Time of The Year

My Wonderful Things This Year:
1. Snow!
2. Online shopping. No lines, no crowds. Just me, Josh Groban, and my shopping list.
3. No neighbors = no neighbor gifts...wahoo!
4. chocolate indulgences
5. my kids' simple wish lists
6. Isaac's first Christmas
7. Jeff's Christmas break
8. cinnamon & spruce
9. Christmas cards!
10. family getting together

Sunday, November 22, 2009

Thankful


the Gospel. family. a healthy body. hot showers. change in seasons. sticky kisses. dishwasher. sisters. grandmas. college. chocolate. primary songs. prayer. photos. washing machine. blogging. journal. naps. a good read. a warm bed. a fully functional vehicle. mom. fresh produce. disposable diapers. pizza. cell phones. Sunday. NPR. supper club. automatic bill pay. bedtime stories. scriptures. Jeff. email. sunshine. holidays. Ensign. fresh sheets. babies. vacuum lines. swiss cheese. marriage. 5-year-old art. fairytales. the United States of America. quilts. lotion. bandaids. Snapfish. testimony.

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Time Out

I spent last weekend with female family members at Time Out For Women! Lucky! Last year my great friend, Brandi, invited me to go and we had such a good time that I wanted to take my whole family and go again this year. What this means is that I have been waiting for this for a whole year! I was so excited when it finally arrived. Can I tell you how easy it is to get packed and ready and go somewhere by myself? I kissed my kids goodbye and left them (even my infant son) in the very capable hands of their father and was off. This is a picture of my mom, sisters and I leaving my parents house for our girls-only weekend.
The first night of the event featured Chieko Okasaki and Hilary Weeks. Not a Hilary Weeks fan? Well, just invest in one of her CD's and you will be. She is fantastic. I fell in love at last year's Time Out and was so happy to see her again this year. This picture is of my adorable sisters and I.
Our whole clan laughed together and cried together. Pictured are two of my aunts with their daughters and daughters-in-law.
Saturday we got to hear from Mary Ellen Edmunds, Emily Watts, Jill Manning (wondering how to make sure your family is safe online? Check out her stuff at www.deseretbook.com/jill) and Emily Freeman. It was refreshing, uplifting, inspiring, encouraging...all the things a Time Out is supposed to be. Here's a group shot of us on our way out.
A few things I learned at Time Out: Being in a room with 3000 other Latter-Day Saint women makes you realize that no matter what you are going through, other women understand you. Women come in all different shapes and sizes, so I guess I'm ok. Olive Garden has whole wheat linguine (this, by the way, is fantastic news.) Being hooked to a breast pump for a good portion of time is not a lot of fun, and makes you feel somewhat bovine. Hotel pools sometimes close, destroying your plans to do water aerobics with your sisters. Music can evoke powerful emotions. Being alone in a car for several hours gives you a lot of time to think...which is a very good thing.
And where will I be a year from now? At Time Out For Women!

Friday, November 6, 2009

What Have I Done?

It happened. I finally caved to social pressure. And now I am filled with regret. I should have stuck to my guns. Marched to the beat of my own drum, but no, I didn't, and now my actions are irreversible. See, I am fully aware that Isaac's long locks were funny looking and crazy. That's the part I loved! Not everyone was in love, however. I frequently got comments like, "Wow! Look at that hair! When are you going to cut it?" So, cut it I did....
Now I hardly recognize my own child! He looks completely different! He looks older and chubbier. Even his eyes appear to be a different color since he is now a blonde. I cried big tears but it didn't help. Isaac's hair is gone forever.

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Happy Haunting!

Our Happy Halloween began with the arrival of a spooky package in the mail filled with frights from Grandma. There was even a new toy for Isaac inside!

The package was complete with sugar cookie mix, frosting, sprinkles (the hit) and cookie cutters. We got right to work making our Halloween treats.

Next on the agenda was the local craft fair. Both Daisy and Levi's dance classes were invited to perform. Levi did a stellar job at his "Ghostbusters" routine. Even though it was his very first performance he was not scared at all.

Daisy's class performed a stunning number to "Purple People Eater" (What? Her horn didn't give it away?)

Before we knew it, it was time for Grandma's annual Halloween Party, and this year was better than ever complete with games and even a spook alley. Isaac won the best costume award as our little puppy (ok, there was no best costume award, but he was so cute!)

The older kids had a bit of costume schizophrenia throughout the Halloween holiday, but for Grandma's party, Levi settled on the purple dinosaur and Daisy was the ghost.

This is a shot of all the costumed cousins at the festivities, featuring the oldest grandchild holding the youngest.

There were two cool things about carving pumpkins this year: Grandpa and Grandma joined us and we grew all the pumpkins in our very own garden! Daisy carved hers all by herself and Levi was totally grossed out by the guts.

We met dad for dinner one night while he was studying late with some friends for midterms and ended up eating at Pirate Island almost by accident. If you are as unfortunate as we were until we happened upon this eating establishment, count yourself lucky that you now know of the coolest place to take your kids to eat! No more Chucky Cheese! Pirate Island was a dream come true complete with real pirates (I swear our waiter was Jack Sparrow himself) and great food. Highly recommended by the Dansie family. Located behind University Mall.

The next costuming took place for the carnival at Daisy's school, which we would have missed out on had it not been for Grandma calling and saving the day. It was the most well organized school carnival I have ever been to! The kids had a blast and it was super inexpensive. We're sold on the school carnival from here on out.

Our final Halloween event was the glorious trick-or-treating. Since my poor kids have a mom that is ANTI trunk-or-treat (don't get me started) they had to get their candy the old fashioned way...which they loved. Levi was totally in character as the coolest cowboy in the west. Daisy was delighted when he surrendered the ghost so she could be Casper again. All our festivities made for a super duper happy Halloween. Hope the same for you!

Friday, October 30, 2009

Stuck In An Elevator

I am in the process of exiting the restroom at the mall with my three children. Isaac is in the stroller and the restroom has double doors which requires some maneuvering. Levi is bouncing off the walls, tired of waiting. He runs ahead, then comes back. I scold him saying, "Stay right here!" Off he goes again. Daisy holds the door so the stroller containing Isaac and I can finally be set free from the bathroom. As we proceed down the hall I hear Levi scream, "MOM!" I round the corner just in time to see the elevator door close with my three-year-old inside. I find myself in panic mode. I am searching my mind frantically to know what to do. Levi is gone. I can't take the stroller on the escalator to go down and meet him. Will he be kidnapped? Will they call security? Will they call DCFS...'mother of three charged with neglect after three-year-old boy is found abandoned on department store elevator.' I can hear him screaming. His voice is faint and distant, but I can hear him. I conclude that I have to meet him at the bottom. I crouch down to look Daisy directly in the eye as I talk to her. I instruct her to sit on the chair with her hand on the stroller and to not let go or move no matter what. As I start off toward the escalator, Levi's screams become louder and I realize he is on his way back up the elevator. I turn around and the doors begin to open. He sees me and squeezes through. I pick him up as he reaches me. He wraps his arms around me and sobs, "mommy, mommy, mommy." He is trembling and holding me so tight that I am surprised at his strength. I am so thankful to be holding him in my arms, thankful enough that I decide not to injure him on the spot for causing me so much grief. On the drive home as I contemplate the evening's events it occurs to me that some of my emotions must have been similar to the Father of us all. He has given us the agency and ability to choose. As we make poor decisions He has to watch as we suffer the consequences. How He must rejoice when we come back to Him again. And yes, Levi and I have a long talk about listening when we get home.

Friday, October 23, 2009

Fall About You


Haven't seen one of these in a while....
1. Favorite season: summer
2. Favorite physical feature: yikes! do wrists count?
3. Chore you most detest: cleaning out closets/drawers. My kids grow out of their clothes too fast!
4. Color your hair regularly? no
5. Top item on your wish list: piano
6. Favorite way to 'scent' your house: plug-ins
7. What are you eating for dinner tonight? don't know yet...
8. Are your toenails painted? no
9. One thing you splurge on even if $ is tight: going to the movie!
10. Post the most recent photo of you
11. Tag 8 friends: Brandi, Jana, Christel, Lindsay, Rachel, Chelsea, Laci, Emily

Sunday, October 18, 2009

Wallet Woes

If you recognize the big black rectangle in the photo it is a sign that you really know me. I got this wallet in the 8th grade. It has two zipper compartments. One is the wallet part, which has more than enough room for my coupons, checkbook, club cards, money, business cards, etc. The other compartment is one of those old school planners. You know, the kind where you write down your appointments on the dated calendar pages. Yeah, I almost have to special order the refills since nobody uses these dinosaurs anymore...except me. That's the section where my kids' photos live and where I have paper to write down everything I need to in a day, like how I want my meat cut at the deli counter, or a note to leave on the windshield of the lady I visit teach. This wallet is a monster. It doesn't fit in a purse. It is a purse. I love it. Here's the really bad news. My wallet died. The zipper finally broke to a point beyond repair.
Since a person cannot be without a wallet I went to the dreaded Wal-Mart and bought the biggest wallet I could find. It's an ugly sucker. And it's too small. It's a wrestling match to get my coupons out at the grocery store. I am accumulating coins because it is too complicated to fish them out and use them. I don't have any room for note paper! I'm soliciting advice. What do you carry all of your essentials in? How do you fit everything? Help!

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Sisters in Zion

So, in case you didn't already know, I basically have the coolest family ever. Last weekend my sisters and mom came to visit. My youngest sister is getting married so Friday night her fiance came over and we were up till 1:00 in the morning talking and laughing in the midst of which I endured a hair styling session from Daisy. I don't think I've been up that late doing nothing since the old college days! Saturday morning we were off to do wedding shopping. Then, one of the best parts about going shopping with the girls: lunch! This day we chose Red Robin.


After lunch we dropped the kids off with Jeff, who was on campus studying, and headed to Temple Square for the General Relief Society Meeting. That's right, I scored us tickets and we all got to go together! This is us on our way in. Oh, and if you're wondering if we changed into dresses in the parking lot (you weren't wondering?) yes, we did.

...and on the way out. The meeting was fantastic. The choir was amazing live and each of the speakers was inspiring. Just being there with so many other women was inspiring. And yes, my sister is holding her blister-inflicting shoes.
And a GNO would not be complete (and neither would I) without Cold Stone. It was divine, celestial, heavenly, all the things ice cream on a spiritual night should be. I think ice cream by nature is spiritual...which is why my baby weight has now turned into Cold Stone weight.

I absolutely love spending time with my mom and sisters. I am a better person just by being with them.

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Past the City Limit Sign

We live in 'The Fields.' Jeff has always wanted to live 'out' and wants to forevermore. There are tons of things I love about living out here, and I feel totally blessed to be here right now. But...there are some things that aren't so hot. Here are the Top 5:
Best Things About Living In The Fields:
1. The sweet smell of fresh cut alfalfa
2. I don't have to worry about my kids getting hit by a car, ever.
3. I can nurse my baby on the back porch and no one will ever see (yes, I do.)
4. My kids can have animals, do chores, and ride their horses in their own backyard.
5. It's beautiful!

Worst Things About Living In The Fields:
1. The water. The hard well water is kicking my butt.
2. The flies. and more flies, and more flies.
3. No mail delivery. Who doesn't like to get mail?
4. No school buses. I have to take Daisy and pick her up.
5. The insects. The entrance to my house looks like an insect graveyard. We're not talking a few lowly casualties, it's an unmistakable mass grave for crawling things.
5.1. No neighbors. Unless the corn counts. Ok, that could legitimately be listed under both headings.
5.2. Library fees. Not a city resident? Must pay a non-resident fee to use the library. Rude!
5.3. No such thing as a clean car. Dirt roads. Need I say more?
5.4. No vote! Call me naive, but I was told when I went to vote today that I cannot. I don't live in city limits, so I can't vote for City Council. Do you know what that is? Taxation without representation. They make the decisions for my city, but my vote is not allowed. Being told you are not allowed to vote = All.Fired.Up.

Ok, so the 'Worst' list is a tad bit longer than the 'Best' list. Maybe Jeff and I need to have a little talk about his lifetime goal to always live 'in the fields.'

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Isaac's Trademark...Gone

Since the moment he entered this world, Isaac's trademark has been his hair. It was long and thick and out-of-control right from the start. Throughout his stay in the hospital all the nurses would tease about putting bows in it because it was so long. Everywhere we go - the mall, the movie, the zoo, the pediatrician, the photographer, church, family reunions - people comment on Isaac's outstanding (literally) hair. Several people have hinted, some not so subtly, that it was time to tame his locks. I resisted because it would make him seem older. That was the way he came! However, I knew I couldn't hold out forever. So this weekend when my mom was here I had her do the deed. Isaac's trademark hair is now just a lock of a memory taped into his baby book.
This is a good 'before' shot so you can see just how manly his mullet had become.
This is how he felt about getting rid of his famous do that he had worked so hard growing and grooming. I must confess that I, too, shed a few tears of my own (sniffle, sniffle.)
Here's an 'after' shot from the back. Yikes! It's gone!
And here's an 'after' shot from the front. Nope, I didn't let them take any off the top. While we bid farewell to the mullet, we are holding on to the mohawk for a bit longer. And as you can see, he survived the whole ordeal just fine.

Wednesday, September 2, 2009

Riding Club

Jeff loves competing with the local riding club. It gives him a chance to ride, which is his real passion. It's also a time for him to socialize, which I don't think he would do at all without riding club. He takes the kids with him to practice every Tuesday night and they all look forward to it. This past weekend his meet was in Huntington so the kids and I drove over to cheer him on. I even got to see my super cute friend Jana, which was a real treat. He placed in a few events which means he will advance to the upcoming State Meet.
After a full day of riding and playing all of us had very dirty boots...except Isaac.

This is Jeff's team. Yee-haw.


Daddy giving Isaac some love, since the older two are the ones who usually end up in the saddle with him.
This is a picture of Jeff and Levi last weekend. Jeff took both Daisy and Levi camping with his family one last time before school started. Isaac and I stayed home. It was a blissful weekend for both of us. I couldn't believe how much I could accomplish with just one child to take care of! We decided the whole "Leave Mom At Home For The Weekend" will be something we institute on a quarterly basis. I need the break, and Jeff and the kids need the time together. Where will I send them come November?

Friday, August 21, 2009

See ya Summer, School is Cool!

In my entire lifetime history of blogging, I have never gone this long without a post, and I may have even started some vicious rumors with my last post! I would try to make up some outlandish excuse, but I have none. This much is true: I have dearly missed blogging! I didn't realize how much I love it and how much it helps me wind down. It is real 'me' time, which I don't seem to make a lot of these days. So...here it is, our entire summer recap.
The Fourth of July weekend was a blast. We didn't go anywhere camping for the first time since Jeff and I have been married, so off we went to the City Carnival at the Park. I had a great time because it reminded me of how we celebrated the fourth when I was growing up. Daisy's dance group performed, then the kids played the carnival games and got their faces painted. That night we were all set to go for fireworks, that is until it started raining. The next day was Isaac's blessing day. Our fab family traveled from far and near to be there. Isaac cried the whole time, but Jeff still gave a beautiful blessing.
Soon enough it was time for the much anticipated Ute Stampede. Jeff, Daisy, and Levi rode in the parade. The rodeo was a grand ol' time, as always. We went with the whole family on Thursday night, took the kids to the nasty carnival on Friday night, and then went to the rodeo again on Saturday. Each day is complete with a parade, and my favorite part of the Stampede: chuckwagon breakfast at the park.
We spent Pioneer Day in Antimony for our second annual Sullivan Stampede, which is code for family reunion. We took the horses (of course) and really enjoyed ourselves. How cool is it that I come from one of the greatest families around?
Before we knew it we were celebrating Levi's third birthday! He has been waiting and waiting. He wanted EVERYTHING for his birthday, but mostly just trucks. He had a great John Deere cake and a party with our family. Now he reminds us every day that he is big, and he asks me several times a week if he is still three (as if being three came and went like his birthday did.)
I am a director on the County Fair board, so fair time is a big deal at our house. This year was just as much work but not as much stress as last year. The kids entered their roosters and Daisy competed in the walk/trot event on her horse, earning a blue ribbon. After all of the events and competitions were over, we took the kids to the Demolition Derby (or the Crash Cars, as Levi calls it.) While I am convinced that Demolition Derby is just a more appealing way to say Trailer Trash Convention, the kids totally loved it, and that's what matters.
For a Fun Family Finale we took the kids on a weekend getaway to the zoo, since we have NEVER been, and did some school shopping for dad and Daisy. Jeff worked like a mad man this summer so we were overdue for some family time before school started up again. The zoo was everything we imagined. The kids were awesome, it was not too hot or crowded, and we got to see tons of animals. Levi's favorite was the crocodiles (which he calls alligators) and Daisy's fav was the new baby giraffe. Isaac was just glad they didn't put him in with the monkeys since he kind of looks like one.
Just a few days after we got home it was Daisy's first day of school! It is no secret that I have been dreading this day for months. It tells you something about my emotional state when I confess that I have cried about this day several times a week since June. But ready or not, here it is. Daisy, on the other hand, was ecstatic (which actually made things much easier for me.) She is SO ready to be a school girl. She is so cute getting ready every day, and I love to hear what she has to report when she gets home. I still get a choked up when I drop her off each day, but I just say a little prayer and smile and wave.
Jeff is back to school next week. He has a killer semester ahead, but we're ready to jump in with both feet. Even though the summer has flown by, we have had so much fun, and we're ready to buckle down and get into a routine again. By next summer we'll be one year closer to Pharmacy school, Daisy will be all done with Kindergarten, and Isaac will be a year old. And maybe I'll make the time to blog between now and then.

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Not Hiding Anymore

Although our immediate family has known for quite some time, we have decided to tell our close friends and family that I have a severe chronic neurological disorder. It started with the onset of my third pregnancy and has worsened significantly since Isaac has been born. The main symptom is this: my brain no longer works. When my healthcare provider asked if my symptoms were interfering with normal daily activities I asked what "normal" is. (Ok, I really haven't talked to my doctor...) We've come to terms with the disorder, and my older children are comfortable talking about it. In fact, Daisy tells me on a daily basis, "Mom, I think your brain is broken." Yes, Daisy, so do I, and what's more - you have this to look forward to when you become a mom. Good luck.

Saturday, July 11, 2009

Getting Old

The Young Women were running carnival-type booths at the Fourth of July festivities here in town. We were about to leave and had two tickets left, so I stepped up to the "Plinko" booth. As I took the discs from the Young Women, I said, "You know, I saw Plinko played live on the Price is Right!" The girls just looked at me, unimpressed. "Do you know what the Price is Right is?" I asked. "No," they responded simply. "I saw Bob Barker," I pronounced, certain they would ooh and aah. When they just stared at me I redundantly asked, "Do you know who Bob Barker is?" When they again said, "no," it became very clear to me that I am getting old. I guess I need to remember that the kids going into Young Women's don't even remember September 11, not to mention Bob Barker. I wonder what I'll feel like when I'm really old. No one will ever know what I'm talking about!

Thursday, June 25, 2009

Half Done

I live in a constant state of half done. It feels as though everything I attempt is only partially accomplished. Dishes: dishwasher emptied, not reloaded. Emails: read, not responded to. Bills: opened, not paid. Laundry: washed, not put away. Floors: swept, not mopped. Carpets: living room vacuumed, bedrooms not. Me: showered, not made up. Beds: stripped, not remade. Decor: shelf hung, nothing on it. Scriptures: halfway through the chapter. Even my lunch: half eaten before I have to stop and do something else. Interesting that while everything is only half done, the three adorable little reasons that prevent me from completing tasks are the precise reason(s) I feel complete.

Sunday, June 21, 2009

Summer of Fun Has Begun!

Although it's been rainy, things of started out with the Summer of Fun at the Dansie household. Things around here still feel like chaos and most of the time we are just trying to keep up, but we are enjoying the ride. For those of you that don't know, our Daisy STILL sucks her thumb. We have tried everything in the book to get her to stop and it is just not happening. The other day she was holding Isaac for me while I was trying to get something done. When I came in the room she said, "Mom, look! He likes it too!" She had her thumb in his mouth and was letting him suck on it.
So...the next day this is what we find: Isaac has found his own thumb - and he likes it. With all the trouble we have had trying to break Daisy's habit I hate to admit that I think Isaac's new discovery is adorable!
My great sister-in-law flew out from Ohio (where my brother-in-law is in dental school) with her son Davis, who is Levi's age, and her new baby Reece. It was so great to see them! The kids played together as if they get to see each other on a regular basis. Hopefully we can live closer together eventually.
My other sister-in-law was in town with her son, Easton. We can't help but have fun when Marcy is around!
We made our way down to my grandparent's cabin with our friends the Bosh's last weekend. It was a quick trip, but a nice getaway.
We rode four wheelers, watched movies, ate lots of food, and roasted marshmallows. Growing up we went to the cabin every summer. Now that I have children of my own it is so much fun to take them there and enjoy it all over again.
And here's a shot of my three kids (woah! Do I really have three children??) Daisy and Levi both adore Isaac and help out wherever they can. It has been so much fun to watch Daisy fill her new role and to see Levi become a big brother. I don't know where I would be without them.

Monday, June 1, 2009

Sweet Summertime

We had a fantastic Memorial Day weekend. We went to sunny St. George where one of my cutest friends in the world is a photographer. She did a session with Isaac as well as some 5 Generation shots with the women in my family. Get a sneak peak (and check out her other great work) at http://momentstorememberphotography.blogspot.com. It was so good to see her, and to get such great photos done.
We stayed with my family for the holiday weekend. It was the first time my dad got to see Isaac. The kids were so excited to see Grandpa's new puppies!

Daisy learned to ride her bike without training wheels. I haven't gotten a great shot of her bike-riding skills yet, but I did take this picture of her after her first crash. She is doing so well. It seems like it took me forever to learn how to ride a bike, but as soon as Jeff took her training wheels off, she was a pro!
As you probably know, the Memorial Day weekend was very rainy. Grandma helped Levi search for worms after we got home from church. They would find the ones that were still alive and 'rescue' them by putting them back in the grass. What could be more fun?
Some of the newest arrivals at the Dansie family farm (haha) are our pink piglets. I must admit that they are pretty cute for pigs. Levi was so excited that they were pink (our last pigs were not pink.) Daisy and Levi both love the pigs and take turns emptying the slop bucket for them.
It wouldn't officially be summer without baseball, right? Daisy is loving playing T ball this year. She thinks it is very cool that she gets to be number 5 since she is 5 years old. With the beautiful sunshine, working in the garden, and heading to the ball field a few times a week, I know summer is finally here.